Communication.... Communication....Oi.

Well, here is my 2nd rant. Well not so much a rant as a bitch... which is basically the same thing. It seems people in this fucking world have communication problems. That includes me, but I try. When the thing is really really fucking important I try... and about 50% of the time fail at discussing the problem, and sometimes if it is within my control, the solution. But it would probably require the other party to be resecptive to discuss the problem and, frankly, everyone knows thats a big-ass bitch to do. No one talks things out anymore. I know some issues are tough. But, c'mon people! Give that person you need to talk to a freaking chance! Just discuss it with them. It may not be what you like, or it might be. But at least its not festering between you both making things worse. There is nothing more stupid then not confronting a problem, no matter how hard it is.

I suppose... rather know some problems may be huge to you, no matter how small they may seem to another person. Issues one doesn't quite know how to even approach. But, sometimes the hardest ones are the ones that NEED to be worked out. Letting them sit there only makes things worse- and when everything comes out, (and everything always does) feelings can be hurt, regret can form, and what once was normal can become very awkward. Of course, the fear that talking about a problem and making things okward always keeps things inside.

Now, time for the mind games issue. Oh fantastic mind games. These are things that make things WORSE. Let's not tell so-and-so something outright but, rather play inuenedo games and see if they figure it out. Most people have trouble figuring out obtuse signals and random statments. If one isn't thinking that way, or doesn't believe the other thinks that way they aren't going to pick up on such things. So what happens? Nothing most of the time, because no one says anything!

So what am I fucking saying? FUCKING DICUSS SHIT PEOPLE! Really. Otherwise, I guarantee something will go wrong. Jesus Christ*, I know communicating some things suck total ass, but, isn't it better to get it off your mind and chest than carry shit around all by yourself?! Unsaid shit can really ruin things much more then speaking up. The issue at hand may change a little, but things between you and that person may never be the same if nothing is said and a long time later it's all dragged out.

But, what the hell do I know people? I AM only trying to give you advice here. BUT that WOULD require you to hmmm.. I dunno open your fucking mind and listen to me! And, that is why your communication sucks because no one fucking listens! Then again why should you when you get along with everyone and EVERYONE gets along with you, right? Damn people.

* "Jebus" As used by Trajedi, the sinnful one, is not the proper term for our and your savior Jesus Christ. Although we don't approve of the fact Trajedi used his name in vein, we'd rather she at least use his real name. - C.R.A.C.K "Pat Roberson for President, 2004, Get rid of the gays!"